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Raising a family in San Bernardino — thoughts?

Not sure if this has been asked before, but Been living here since 2023. Crime rate is something to consider — San Bernardino sits at 1,318.8 per 100K. Poverty rate is 15.9%, which is higher than I expected. It's a a mid-size city city with about 222K people. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. Honestly, I think it's a great place if you know where to look. The food scene here is surprisingly good. There's a real sense of community in certain neighborhoods. Downtown has improved a lot in recent years.

Pros:
- Affordable cost of living
- Friendly people
- Low crime in most areas
- Easy commute
- Active local events

Cons:
- Traffic can be terrible
- Limited public transit
- Mosquitoes and humidity
- Homelessness issues downtown
I'd say it's better for families than young singles. Honestly, I think it's a great place if you know where to look. I'd say it's better for families than young singles. Property taxes are high but you get good services. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. People here are genuinely friendly, not just surface-level. The suburbs are where most families end up. The parks and outdoor areas are a huge plus. The school system varies a lot by neighborhood. Night life is decent if you know the right spots. The weather takes some getting used to. Public transit needs a lot of work honestly. Property taxes are high but you get good services. The weather takes some getting used to. Public transit needs a lot of work honestly. Honestly, I think it's a great place if you know where to look. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. The city has invested a lot in new development. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. The city has invested a lot in new development. I'd say it's better for families than young singles. People here are genuinely friendly, not just surface-level. Public transit needs a lot of work honestly.
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Henry Nguyen
seconding this
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Luke Wilson
this is the way
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Aubrey Martin
I've lived in Uptown for about 2 years now, so I can give you a pretty detailed perspective.

I genuinely enjoy living here. When I first moved here from Portland, I was surprised by cost of living. It took some adjustment but now I wouldn't trade it.

A few things worth knowing:
- Active local events and festivals
- Good airport with direct flights
- The safety scene is tough

The downsides:
- Traffic during rush hour is rough
- Bugs and humidity in summer

Overall I'd rate it 5/10 for remote workers. Feel free to reach out with questions..
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Emma Carter
Great question. I'll try to be comprehensive here.

I'm a chef who relocated here from Denver about 10 years ago. The main reasons were weather and retirement.

Pros I've experienced:
- Great outdoor activities nearby
- Lots of new development happening
- Close to major attractions

Cons that are real:
- Limited public transit options
- Nightlife is limited

Financially, we've found it tough compared to where we came from. Lots of new construction which should help. Groceries are reasonable, gas is tough.

Socially, it's improved dramatically in recent years. Hope this helps!.
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Naomi H.
Totally agree!
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Isabella Jackson
Used to live on the Greenfield side, now on the Uptown side. Completely different vibe. it was the best decision I ever made.
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Nathan C.
Weather-wise, the summers are excellent and winters are stable. You get used to it after the first year.
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Chloe
lol so true
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Thomas Lopez
Hot take but it's exactly what I was looking for. I know a lot of people disagree but after 15 years here, that's my honest assessment.
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Leonardo Nguyen
Great question. I'll try to be comprehensive here.

I'm a electrician who relocated here from Tampa about 8 years ago. The main reasons were quality of life and cost of living.

Pros I've experienced:
- Cost of living is very reasonable
- Nice parks and green spaces
- Decent public transit for the size

Cons that are real:
- Limited high-paying job options
- Homeless population growing downtown

Financially, we've found it hit or miss compared to where we came from. It's gotten pricier but still beats the coasts. Groceries are affordable, gas is hit or miss.

Socially, there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. Good luck with whatever you decide..
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Danielle R.
accurate
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Donna M.
yep
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Logan W.
big facts right here
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David Garcia
Came here for weather and stayed because there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. The job market is honestly challenging and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
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Lily Rivera
it depends on the neighborhood
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Beverly R.
Real talk - this place is not for everyone, and I think that's OK.

If you value walkability, you'll love it. The safety is genuinely improving and I've found there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. My neighborhood (Lakewood) is pricey and I feel safe walking around at night.

But if you're coming from Seattle, be prepared for the culture shock. job market is completely different here. And Traffic during rush hour is rough.

My advice would be to visit for at least a week before committing. Rent first, don't buy. And explore multiple neighborhoods - they're all different.
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Austin Walker
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in Old Town for 2 years. Moved from Seattle for a job opportunity. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is better than expected. We bought in 2022 at k and it's now worth up a bit than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 4-bed in a safe area. The market is competitive but not impossible.

**Employment:**
retail is strong here. government is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are established for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
it's not perfect but it works for me. The outdoor scene is hit or miss - we have ski resorts within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. Old Town schools are hit or miss. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Limited public transit options. Chain restaurants dominate. And community vibe can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For couples, I'd say this is a 5/10. Would recommend to anyone considering it.. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Gabriel N.
Can confirm, been here 3 years.
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Robert H.
Renting here right now, paying about /mo for a 2-bedroom. I'm still on the fence after all this time. Compared to Houston it's hit or miss.
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Natalie
I'm a electrician and I've found there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. The community is hit or miss and there's always something going on.
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Cameron Patel
My experience has been mostly positive. there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. The only thing I'd watch out for is housing market. Other than that, Your mileage may vary depending on what you're looking for..
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Samuel Walker
thanks for sharing
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Benjamin Wilson
Gonna give a different perspective here since most replies seem excellent.

I've been here 1 years and it's not perfect but it works for me. The thing nobody mentions is pet-friendliness. It's developing and it affects daily life more than you'd think.

That said, the cost of living is legit. And if you're into golfing, this place is average.

Neighborhood matters A LOT here. The Sunset side vs the Midtown side are basically different cities. Make sure you visit both before deciding.

No regrets on my end..
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Bennett C.
I work in healthcare here and it's exactly what I was looking for. The job market for my field is excellent. No regrets on my end..
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Christian Gutierrez
I work in real estate here and I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. The job market for my field is excellent. Feel free to reach out with questions..
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Isabelle C.
Weather-wise, the summers are hit or miss and winters are growing. You get used to it after the first year.
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Daniel F.
Real talk - this place is not for everyone, and I think that's OK.

If you value cost of living, you'll love it. The public transit is genuinely challenging and I've found it's improved dramatically in recent years. My neighborhood (Lakewood) is reasonable and I feel safe walking around at night.

But if you're coming from Seattle, be prepared for the culture shock. pet-friendliness is completely different here. And Property taxes are high.

My advice would be to visit for at least a week before committing. Rent first, don't buy. And explore multiple neighborhoods - they're all different.
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nyc_david
We moved here with our family and it's improved dramatically in recent years. Schools in East area are hit or miss. Kids love it here.
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vegasrunner2024
Public transit is better than expected here. You'll probably need a car for most things. I have mixed feelings honestly.
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Ella
literally same
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Aria C.
I've lived in Springfield for about 9 years now, so I can give you a pretty detailed perspective.

I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. When I first moved here from Austin, I was surprised by pet-friendliness. It took some adjustment but now I wouldn't trade it.

A few things worth knowing:
- Nice parks and green spaces
- Strong job market in several industries
- The pet-friendliness scene is improving

The downsides:
- Limited public transit options
- Limited shopping options

Overall I'd rate it 5/10 for couples. Definitely worth checking out..
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Joseph Richardson
following this thread
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Isabelle Morales
Not gonna lie, the first year was rough. But once you find your neighborhood and your people, the quality of life is solid. It's not for everyone but it works for us..
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Naomi A.
I'm a HR manager and I've found I genuinely enjoy living here. The community is tough and there's always something going on.
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Gianna Brooks
OK so I've been meaning to write this for a while. I moved here 6 years ago from San Francisco and here's my honest breakdown:

Housing: If you look outside the main areas you can find deals. We're paying /mo for a 3-bed in Old Town. It's solid for what you get.

Jobs: The market is stable right now, especially in manufacturing. If you're in healthcare you might struggle.

People: Generally average. It took about 14 months to build a solid friend group.

Food: decent. Tons of options if you like Mediterranean.

Hope this helps!.
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Patricia Y.
From a safety perspective, it really depends on the area. Some neighborhoods are surprisingly good, others not so much. Do your research on specific streets.
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Luna Garcia
Used to live on the Uptown side, now on the South side. Completely different vibe. it's exactly what I was looking for.
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Gary J.
Gonna give a different perspective here since most replies seem better than expected.

I've been here 12 years and it was the best decision I ever made. The thing nobody mentions is food scene. It's manageable and it affects daily life more than you'd think.

That said, the healthcare is legit. And if you're into kayaking, this place is solid.

Neighborhood matters A LOT here. The Springfield side vs the Greenfield side are basically different cities. Make sure you visit both before deciding.

Give it a chance - it might surprise you..
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