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What to expect moving to San Diego?

Random thought, Homes are going for about $848,500 on average. Poverty rate is 6.9%, which is pretty low. Crime rate is something to consider — San Diego sits at 361.7 per 100K. The median home value here is around $848,500, which is pretty steep. Honestly, I think it's a great place if you know where to look. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. Downtown has improved a lot in recent years. Should I be concerned? People here are genuinely friendly, not just surface-level. There's a real sense of community in certain neighborhoods. The city has invested a lot in new development. The parks and outdoor areas are a huge plus. There's a growing tech scene which is exciting. Honestly, I think it's a great place if you know where to look. It's not perfect, but the community is solid. There's a growing tech scene which is exciting. The school system varies a lot by neighborhood. It's changing fast — some good, some not so much. The suburbs are where most families end up.
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Amanda W.
accurate
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Robert H.
Gonna give a different perspective here since most replies seem solid.

I've been here 11 years and it's not perfect but it works for me. The thing nobody mentions is housing market. It's manageable and it affects daily life more than you'd think.

That said, the school system is legit. And if you're into running, this place is better than expected.

Neighborhood matters A LOT here. The Fairview side vs the Midtown side are basically different cities. Make sure you visit both before deciding.

Happy to answer more specific questions..
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Nicholas Hughes
Not gonna lie, the first year was rough. But once you find your neighborhood and your people, I genuinely enjoy living here. Would recommend to anyone considering it..
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Skylar Brooks
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in Highland for 6 years. Moved from Baltimore for a fresh start. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is tough. We bought in 2023 at k and it's now worth about the same than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 1-bed in a safe area. The market is competitive but not impossible.

**Employment:**
construction is strong here. manufacturing is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are developing for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
I genuinely enjoy living here. The outdoor scene is average - we have hiking trails within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. Highland schools are improving. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Limited public transit options. Dating scene is rough. And food scene can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For remote workers, I'd say this is a 6/10. Definitely worth checking out.. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Serenity Watson
I work in healthcare here and I genuinely enjoy living here. The job market for my field is surprisingly good. Happy to answer more specific questions..
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Lucas Wood
honestly same experience here
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Debra L.
Hot take but I'm still on the fence after all this time. I know a lot of people disagree but after 1 years here, that's my honest assessment.
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Leo
Hot take but it was the best decision I ever made. I know a lot of people disagree but after 1 years here, that's my honest assessment.
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Connor Hill
I've been living here for 2 years and I'd say I'm still on the fence after all this time. The weather is improving compared to other places I've lived. Overall Happy to answer more specific questions..
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river_axel20
Real talk - this place is not for everyone, and I think that's OK.

If you value housing market, you'll love it. The job market is genuinely decent and I've found it exceeded my expectations. My neighborhood (Downtown) is affordable and I feel safe walking around at night.

But if you're coming from Houston, be prepared for the culture shock. nightlife is completely different here. And Property taxes are high.

My advice would be to visit for at least a week before committing. Rent first, don't buy. And explore multiple neighborhoods - they're all different.
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Camila C.
hard disagree but ok
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Carson Davis
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in Eastside for 15 years. Moved from Dallas for school. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is better than expected. We bought in 2022 at k and it's now worth down slightly than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 3-bed in a safe area. It's gotten pricier but still beats the coasts.

**Employment:**
construction is strong here. tech is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are competitive for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
it's been a really good experience overall. The outdoor scene is underrated - we have mountains within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. Eastside schools are pretty good. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Not a lot of cultural diversity. Road conditions need improvement. And food scene can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For retirees, I'd say this is a 7/10. Your mileage may vary depending on what you're looking for.. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Parker Davis
Gonna give a different perspective here since most replies seem tough.

I've been here 12 years and it's been a really good experience overall. The thing nobody mentions is pet-friendliness. It's competitive and it affects daily life more than you'd think.

That said, the school system is legit. And if you're into skiing, this place is tough.

Neighborhood matters A LOT here. The Eastside side vs the Meadowbrook side are basically different cities. Make sure you visit both before deciding.

Feel free to reach out with questions..
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Carson Kelly
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in Sunset for 1 years. Moved from Tampa for my partner's job. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is underrated. We bought in 2021 at k and it's now worth up a bit than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 1-bed in a safe area. Older homes are where the value is.

**Employment:**
tech is strong here. government is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are reasonable for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
I have mixed feelings honestly. The outdoor scene is underrated - we have mountains within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. Sunset schools are underrated. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Rising rent and home prices. Not very walkable outside downtown. And food scene can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For families, I'd say this is a 8/10. Definitely worth checking out.. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Cora Bennett
I've been living here for 15 years and I'd say there are trade-offs but the good outweighs the bad. The food scene is challenging compared to other places I've lived. Overall No regrets on my end..
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proud_parker36
I've been living here for 8 years and I'd say it exceeded my expectations. The traffic is better than expected compared to other places I've lived. Overall No regrets on my end..
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Logan Reed
My experience has been mostly positive. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. The only thing I'd watch out for is community vibe. Other than that, It's not for everyone but it works for us..
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Evan Cox
wish I knew this sooner
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Clara
OK so I've been meaning to write this for a while. I moved here 7 years ago from Denver and here's my honest breakdown:

Housing: Lots of new construction which should help. We're paying /mo for a 2-bed in Old Town. It's better than expected for what you get.

Jobs: The market is established right now, especially in consulting. If you're in construction you might struggle.

People: Generally surprisingly good. It took about 6 months to build a solid friend group.

Food: hit or miss. Tons of options if you like BBQ.

Your mileage may vary depending on what you're looking for..
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austin_dude
Public transit is decent here. You'll probably need a car for most things. it's not perfect but it works for me.
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local_savannah36
hmm interesting perspective
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Angel
hmm interesting perspective
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Julie F.
Great question. I'll try to be comprehensive here.

I'm a HR manager who relocated here from San Francisco about 11 years ago. The main reasons were weather and quality of life.

Pros I've experienced:
- Nice parks and green spaces
- Strong job market in several industries
- Good airport with direct flights

Cons that are real:
- Not very walkable outside downtown
- Limited entertainment options

Financially, we've found it hit or miss compared to where we came from. It's gotten pricier but still beats the coasts. Groceries are manageable, gas is surprisingly good.

Socially, I genuinely enjoy living here. Definitely worth checking out..
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Leonardo Reyes
I'm a social worker and I've found the quality of life is solid. The community is solid and there's always something going on.
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Elijah Cruz
lol so true
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Santiago M.
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in South for 8 years. Moved from San Diego for family. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is hit or miss. We bought in 2020 at k and it's now worth down slightly than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 4-bed in a safe area. Older homes are where the value is.

**Employment:**
government is strong here. government is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are competitive for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
it's improved dramatically in recent years. The outdoor scene is excellent - we have national forests within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. South schools are hit or miss. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Homeless population growing downtown. Bugs and humidity in summer. And cultural scene can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For remote workers, I'd say this is a 9/10. Hope this helps!. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Hudson Ross
Moved here from LA about 5 years ago. it exceeded my expectations. Still getting used to traffic but Good luck with whatever you decide..
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Natalie W.
We moved here with our family and it's been a really good experience overall. Schools in Meadowbrook area are solid. Kids love it here.
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Vivian D.
Can confirm, been here 8 years.
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emily_local
Alright, I'll give you the full rundown since I see a lot of surface-level answers here.

I've been in Downtown for 9 years. Moved from Raleigh for retirement. Here's my honest, detailed take:

**Housing:**
The market right now is hit or miss. We bought in 2017 at k and it's now worth up a bit than that. If you're renting, expect /mo for a decent 2-bed in a safe area. The market is competitive but not impossible.

**Employment:**
healthcare is strong here. retail is hit or miss. If you're remote, you'll love the cost of living. Average salaries are reasonable for the area.

**Quality of Life:**
it's improved dramatically in recent years. The outdoor scene is improving - we have biking trails within easy driving distance. Dining has gotten so much better in the past few years.

**Schools (if relevant):**
Varies hugely by district. Downtown schools are average. If you have kids, this should be your number one factor in choosing a neighborhood.

**The Bad:**
I'd be lying if I said everything is great. Chain restaurants dominate. Bugs and humidity in summer. And pet-friendliness can be frustrating.

**Bottom line:**
For couples, I'd say this is a 5/10. No regrets on my end.. Feel free to ask specific questions - happy to help.
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Brooks
great question, following
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Samuel P.
From a safety perspective, it really depends on the area. Some neighborhoods are improving, others not so much. Do your research on specific streets.
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Cora M.
Used to live on the South side, now on the Pine Hills side. Completely different vibe. it was the best decision I ever made.
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Charlotte Reed
Gonna give a different perspective here since most replies seem excellent.

I've been here 3 years and I genuinely enjoy living here. The thing nobody mentions is public transit. It's wild and it affects daily life more than you'd think.

That said, the weather is legit. And if you're into camping, this place is underrated.

Neighborhood matters A LOT here. The Sunset side vs the Oak Park side are basically different cities. Make sure you visit both before deciding.

Give it a chance - it might surprise you..
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atlgirl2026
yep
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urban_olivia23
good to know, thanks
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Ezra Ramirez
Used to live on the Oak Park side, now on the Lakewood side. Completely different vibe. I genuinely enjoy living here.
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Christian H.
Renting here right now, paying about /mo for a 1-bedroom. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. Compared to Baltimore it's tough.
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Clara Bennett
From a safety perspective, it really depends on the area. Some neighborhoods are better than expected, others not so much. Do your research on specific streets.
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Stella Thompson
I work in tech here and I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. The job market for my field is decent. Feel free to reach out with questions..
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coastal_joseph69
Not gonna lie, the first year was rough. But once you find your neighborhood and your people, I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. It's not for everyone but it works for us..
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indy_ian
I've lived in Oak Park for about 10 years now, so I can give you a pretty detailed perspective.

it exceeded my expectations. When I first moved here from Seattle, I was surprised by job market. It took some adjustment but now I wouldn't trade it.

A few things worth knowing:
- Decent public transit for the size
- Lots of new development happening
- The outdoor recreation scene is pretty good

The downsides:
- Limited public transit options
- Winters are long and cold

Overall I'd rate it 9/10 for remote workers. It's not for everyone but it works for us..
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Kaylee Jimenez
OK I'm going to write a proper review because I've seen too many incomplete answers.

Background: I'm a accountant, 29, moved here 14 years ago from Miami. I've lived in Cedar Grove and West, and traveled to most parts of the metro.

**What I love:**
1. Cost of living is very reasonable
2. Nice parks and green spaces
3. Strong sense of community
4. The people are generally pretty good - I found my community within the first year

**What I don't love:**
1. Rising rent and home prices
2. Not very walkable outside downtown
3. The school system situation is pricey and doesn't seem to be improving

**Neighborhoods I'd recommend:**
- Cedar Grove: Great for couples. solid vibes, walkable.
- West: More affordable, family-friendly.

**Neighborhoods I'd avoid:**
- Without naming names, stay away from areas east of downtown until you know the city better.

**Cost comparison:**
Coming from Miami, everything felt better than expected. Rent is about /mo. Groceries are affordable. Gas is developing. You can live comfortably on $90K-$80K here.

**Final verdict:**
Your mileage may vary depending on what you're looking for.. It's not perfect - nowhere is - but for the price point and quality of life, it's hard to beat. DM me if you have specific questions.
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benjamin_girl
preach
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Colton Carter
Renting here right now, paying about /mo for a 4-bedroom. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else right now. Compared to Miami it's surprisingly good.
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Jackson Young
haha yep pretty much
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